As we head down to Christmas, Santa Claus is on his way and Christmas fever is at its peak. When you buy gifts for your parents, relatives, friends and colleagues, you may wonder if you should also buy something for that special someone. But is it a good idea, or a recipe for disaster? Let's take a look at the different stages of BBW dating to determine what's acceptable and what's not!
Online curvy dating conversations
You may feel like your house is on fire online, but needless to say, you should never buy a gift for someone you just met in the virtual world. Before you meet, you're actually talking to a stranger. Also, if you ask for their home address, it sounds creepy. Save gifts for later and spend more money on the most important first BBW dates.
Date one and date two
Speaking of which, when you meet, make a romantic gesture. December dates are fun and festive; In the spirit of Christmas, a card or gift can be seen as a thoughtful touch.
If you met online before Christmas, some flowers or chocolates might be popular. But don't overdo it or you may come off as overly enthusiastic and scare off your curvy date. If you want a card, make it short and sweet - don't write sentimental poems or express your love!
Will be stable
By the third or fourth plus size date, it's clear that you both like each other, so you may want to consider something more personal. Maybe their favorite artist released a new album for Christmas, or they mentioned in passing that they needed a new scarf.
A well-chosen gift shows that you've been listening to the other person during this time, which makes them feel special. However, in the early days, avoid splurging - keep it small and light. That way, if they don't buy you something in return, it won't be too embarrassing!
In a relationship
If you've recently "made it official," your chubby dating partner may want to receive at least one small gift. To make sure you're on the same page, have a conversation about what you're going to do for Christmas this year, so one of you won't be disappointed or embarrassed! It's a good idea to have a budget that both of you can afford and keep the playing field level in the early stages of your BBW dating relationship.
Whether you've just met or are just getting serious, follow these tips to make sure your best wishes make the right impression on each other this Christmas. Small, personal gifts are more likely to have a bigger impact than expensive ones, so save your money and date at Christmas time!